Wednesday, 15 September 2010

Remember your worth

The One Flaw In Women ...

Women have strengths that amaze men.....

They bear hardships and they carry burdens,

but they hold happiness, love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.

They sing when they want to cry.

They cry when they are happy

and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they believe in..

They stand up to injustice.

They don't take "no" for an answer

when they believe there is a better solution.

They go without so their family can have.

They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.

They love unconditionally.

They cry when their children excel

and cheer when their friends get awards.

They are happy when they hear about

a birth or a wedding.

Their hearts break when a friend dies.

They grieve at the loss of a family member,

yet they are strong when they

think there is no strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss

can heal a broken heart.

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.

They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you

to show how much they care about you.

The heart of a woman is what

makes the world keep turning.

They bring joy, hope and love.

They have compassion and ideas.

They give moral support to their

family and friends.

Women have vital things to say

and everything to give.

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,

IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH. 

Remember YOUR worth.

I’m really grateful that Kate posted this and I want to share it with you. I’m one of those women who sometimes forgets her own worth as I’m trying to please everyone else.  I’m in the phase of recognition, identifying and feeling my lifetraps. I’m also seeing how they play themselves out in everyday situations. I take on too much load. I’ve concluded that I’m on a road that I don’t want to be on. I’m trying to find out how to build a case against my lifetraps. I need to change certain beliefs. I’m balancing between thinking & feeling. I always tend to lean towards thinking. It is a trait I have mastered. But I’m in imbalance.  I really need to empower myself and validate my needs.  I really need to listen more to how I feel. If it doesn’t feel right I just shouldn't do it.

I’m pondering about….. why I keep ignoring my feelings. I need to learn how to breakdown this trap. Need to change my pattern, need to change my beliefs.

Back to reality. How am I going to do this?

 

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I know where u r coming from, I have my list of things 2 do b4 I die or bucket list as it seems 2 b known now & I've pretty much all up feel like I've had a pretty lucky life almost indulgent in lots of ways but last couple of years have had lots of ups and downs & remember how happy I was when I turned 40 & many of my friends were so depressed & had so many regrets but I was just feeling so joyful & free & I remember going 2 a Blondi concert by myself & just totally rocking out & feeling so free but now feel kind of stuck like there has 2 b more 2 life & just work wise this is my 3rd job this year & finding it all very unsettling, there r parts of my life I love & parts where I feel trapped & can't seem 2 get the balance & really striking out in love as well ... But that is secondary 2 me as I need 2 find my own peace ... Perhaps this is a journey we need 2 go on & we need 2 look outside the square of what used 2 make us content no longer does & what other areas can we explore ... xo

Jitske said...

I like this blog :)

You made the first step: to stop and finally listening to yourself. Now it is time to re-set your mind and negative customs. One thought, one negative custom at a time.